Understanding the Pain of Existence: Why Being Alive Feels Unbearable

In the depths of our psychological and existential journey, we often wonder: why does the simple act of living feel so unbearable at times? This article explores the complexities of human experience, the reasons behind our struggles, and how to navigate through the inherent challenges of existence.

Unbearable Pain and Human Condition

The question 'why is living painful and miserable' is more profound than it appears. The truth is, living requires effort and sacrifice. Our pain and misery serve as a form of entertainment to a greater, often unseen consciousness. This concept is central to understanding the inherent struggles of human existence.

Interpersonal Struggles and Communication Breakdowns

In the context of personal relationships, if one party is unable to open up and communicate their feelings, it can lead to a breakdown in the relationship. Rejection and hurt feelings are common, especially when the other party is tired of the ongoing struggle. It is essential to be honest and to recognize that while love may waver, true connection and understanding can still be achieved.

Why is Being Alive Hard Despite the Basic Phenomenon?

Scientifically, life does not extinguish when the chemical processes that form the basis of life continue long enough for organisms to reproduce. However, as individuals, humans yearn for more than just reproduction or survival. We desire to live beyond our necessary biological limits, to achieve goals and experiences that go beyond mere survival. This pursuit of a meaningful life can often make survival feel more challenging than it would otherwise be.

The Various Dilemmas of Human Life

There are several reasons why some individuals find life difficult:

Personal Challenges: Overcoming obstacles, both physical and mental, which can be exhausting and distressing. Mental Health Issues: Conditions like depression and anxiety can make life feel intolerable. Seeking professional help is crucial. Societal Pressures: Expectations from society, family, and peers can create immense stress and conflict. Existential Questions: Questions about the meaning of life and our place in the universe can lead to profound existential crises. Global Challenges: Problems such as poverty, political instability, and natural disasters can make life feel difficult. Isolation and Loneliness: Lack of meaningful connections can result in a sense of isolation, leading to feelings of despair. Personal Expectations: Unrealistic goals and aspirations can create constant frustration and disappointment. Lack of Coping Skills: Inadequate strategies for dealing with stress and adversity can exacerbate emotional suffering.

Abhorrence of Injustice and Common Sense

I despise injustice in all aspects of life. My personal experience has taught me that the majority of humans possess five senses, but 'common sense' is sadly not one of them. This realization has been a catalyst for my deep-seated opposition to injustices and my pursuit of understanding and progress.

Social Media and the Morons Within

Social media, with its countless users, often perpetuates a culture of ignorance and meanness. In a way, I must include myself in this critique, reflecting on the need for self-reflection and improvement. It is crucial to recognize that our online behavior can have a significant impact on society, and we must strive to be more considerate and informed.