Every Dancer's Pet Peeves: Debunking Common Myths and Misconceptions

As a professional dancer, there's nothing more eye-rolling than hearing certain myths and misconceptions about our craft. From the 'I can’t do it' attitude to unwarranted criticisms, dancers have to deal with a myriad of challenges. Let's explore some of the most common pet peeves and why they're not as black and white as they might seem.

Can You Do the Splits? The Ultimate Test?

Can you do the splits? That's often the first question newbies ask me, assuming that this is the epitome of dance achievement. However, the concept of the splits is just one small part of a much larger and more intricate art form. Ballet, for instance, encompasses numerous aspects like piqué turns, allegro jumps, and expressive phrasing that are equally if not more challenging and inspiring than a split.

It's important to recognize the diversity and depth within dance. Performance dancers often have complex characters to portray, intricate technical skills to master, and emotional nuances to explore. The splits, while impressive, do not define the entire scope of what a dancer is capable of achieving.

Choreographer's Requests and Dancer's Concerns

Choreographers frequently ask dancers to learn particular movements, and the initial interaction often ends with a dancer exclaiming, "Can you do that?" It's a natural and valid concern, but often it comes with a preconceived notion of what impresses choreographers. Dancers need to understand that every movement requires preparation and dedication. They have to practice and perfect not just the obvious poses, but also the transitions and the control that accompanies them.

The Question Beyond the Stage

Another pet peeve that dancers encounter is the continuous questioning of their role post-performance. Someone might say, "Yes - we saw your act just now - with Barnaby onstage - but what is your actual job?" This reveals an underlying assumption that dance is just a show and lacks depth beyond what one sees on stage. It's crucial to appreciate that dance is a multifaceted art that demands professionalism, commitment, and a lifelong journey of learning and growth.

The Myth of the Perfect Lead

The notion that a good lead can lead anyone is a dangerous misconception. In truth, leading and following requires a partnership of equal parts. While leaders undoubtedly need to be skilled and confident, followers also have to know their dance craft. Some followers are particularly adept, but others may not have the same level of expertise. Those who claim that it's always the leader's fault often fall into the trap of blaming rather than acknowledging the responsibility they have in their own role. Mutual respect and understanding between partners are key to performing with grace and precision.

Critique vs. Mob Mentality

Lastly, dancers are all too familiar with the critique of dance as a whole by those who have never danced. Comments and ridicule from non-dancers can be hurtful and dismissive. These outside comments assume that dance is merely about moving with rhythm and making minimal effort. However, anyone who has danced knows that it involves coordination, stamina, memorization, and an appreciation for the musicality and emotional depth of the piece. Non-dancers often fail to see the complexity and dedication required to perform a routine flawlessly.

Dancers face these challenges every day, but it's important to remember that these misconceptions are largely due to lack of understanding and misinformation. By sharing our experiences and correcting these misunderstandings, we can help others appreciate the true art and beauty of dance.

Whether it's the splits, the choreography, or the partnership, dancers work tirelessly to craft their performances. As the dance community grows and becomes more accessible through media and social platforms, let's work together to foster a deeper appreciation and understanding of the complexities and nuances of this beautiful art form.